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Navigate power dynamics with higher-ups to earn more authority, freedom, and confidence at work — from one of today’s “most innovative career coaches”
"This book helps you decode your boss’s behavior and unlock the career success you deserve."
– Daniel H. Pink, #1 New York Times bestselling author of DRIVE, TO SELL IS HUMAN, and THE POWER OF REGRET
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Micromanaged? Saddled with busy work? Overlooked for opportunities?
What if you could subtly teach those above you to value your ideas and treat you with respect – without losing yourself or changing your job title?
Managing Up is your ultimate guide to reclaim a sense of control at work and advance your career by managing up.
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"Finally, a science-based book that reveals how to influence others regardless of where you sit on the org. chart. It’s a resource you’ll return to again and again!"
Dr. Tasha EurichNew York Times bestselling Author of Shatterproof, Insight and Bankable Leadership 
"A masterclass in the most critical soft skill for career success. Wilding delivers a refreshingly modern, easy-to-follow instruction manual for navigating workplace dynamics with integrity and emotional intelligence."
Dorie ClarkWall Street Journal bestselling author of The Long Game and executive education faculty, Columbia Business School 
"Managing up is not just a book about navigating relationships in the workplace, though it certainly is that—it's a call to arms to reclaim autonomy in your career. Whether you're just joining the workforce or a seasoned manager, there's something in this practical, empowering, and deeply-human book for you."
Simone StolzoffAuthor of The Good Enough Job 
"If you ever find yourself struggling to figure out where you stand in the workplace, you need this book. Packed with relatable stories and practical scripts and strategies, Managing Up is an essential guide for learning how to take back your power and advocate for yourself with confidence."
Liz FosslienCo-author of WSJ bestseller No Hard Feelings and Big Feelings 
“Expertly managing up is an essential skill that everyone needs to learn. Whether you are at the start of your career or have just stepped into a leadership position, Wilding is the perfect mentor for teaching you how to leverage your manager.”
Vanessa Van EdwardsFounder of Science of People and Bestselling Author 
40% OF WORKERS FEEL HELPLESS AND LIKE THEY HAVE LITTLE TO NO CONTROL OVER THEIR CAREERS.
The result?
Smart, successful people constantly question whether to share their thoughts or stay silent. They blame themselves for “not being good enough.”
Others feel frustrated, sidelined by ambiguous decision-making, or exhausted by miscommunication and butting heads with those above them.
RIGHT NOW YOU MIGHT FACE EACH WORKDAY WITH AN UNDERCURRENT OF ANXIETY, WONDERING:
- How do I get my ideas taken seriously by upper management?
- How can I disagree with my boss without jeopardizing my job?
- Why am I always overlooked for opportunities despite my hard work?
Rising above these challenges requires one skill set: managing up.
Here’s the key:
Managing up isn’t really about making your boss’s life easier. It’s about taking control of your own work experience.
It’s why in this book, you’ll discover 10 conversations to go from being a victim to workplace whims to shaping your entire work experience into one that’s more fulfilling, easeful, and on your own terms.
THE ALIGNMENT CONVERSATION
Reveal your manager’s unspoken needs and priorities – without putting them on the defensive so you can focus on promotable work.
THE STYLES CONVERSATION
Decode your boss’s communication style so you can quit overthinking interactions and tailor your messages to get the attention they deserve.
THE OWNERSHIP CONVERSATION
Ditch the order-taker mentality and get the green light to tackle workplace issues and bottlenecks that bother you.
THE BOUNDARIES CONVERSATION
Discover how to push back and decline extra work with confidence and tact, even from the most demanding leaders.
THE FEEDBACK CONVERSATION
Constructively confront your manager about everything from their lack of vision to their favoritism of another colleague.
THE NETWORKING CONVERSATION
Ask for help from influential people in a way that feels organic and strengthens your social capital over the long term.
THE VISIBILITY CONVERSATION
Leverage everyday opportunities to elevate your reputation and results through the science of simple storytelling.
THE ADVANCEMENT CONVERSATION
Get your boss’s buy-in on your plans, and navigate objections that arise along the way about your readiness, the timing, and more
THE MONEY CONVERSATION
Find out how to gauge your worth and justify it convincingly for a bigger salary and better benefits.
THE QUITTING CONVERSATION
Break the news without damaging your relationships and transition out smoothly.
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Hi, I’m Melody Wilding
I’ve spent the past decade wearing many hats – therapist, human behavior researcher, executive coach.
I’ve helped thousands of professionals — from early-career employees to senior leaders at Fortune 500 companies — navigate workplace dynamics and advocate for themselves with confidence.
I believe you deserve to feel valued and strong when interacting with those above you.
That’s why “Managing Up” shows you exactly how to apply the science of influence, persuasion, negotiation, and more to give yourself a competitive edge at work.
As my clients and students have applied what you’ll learn in this book, they’ve accomplished amazing things:
- Securing six-figure bonuses
- Landing skip-level promotions
- Leading million-dollar expansion projects
But what’s even more life-changing is them reclaiming a sense of agency, autonomy, and authority in their careers.
I can’t wait to help you next!
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